Lake Worth West Community Center offers many classes for young children and their parents. These are part of Children Services Council of Palm Beach County’s BRIDGES program, which stresses positive parenting.
Here’s what one of those classes is like.
Alongside her mother Yushiry Gonzalez, 4-year-old Saory is slowly coloring her favorite foods and toys as she finishes off her “first book.”
It’s a valuable lesson for Saory who is refining her motor skills and learning to socialize in preparation for pre-school.
And it’s also a good lesson for Yushiry, who is 28 and originally from Mexico, as she develops her parenting skills.
They are attending the “Exploring Our World” class at BRIDGES at Lake Worth West at the Lake Worth West Community Center. The class is one of many the center provides for families from Central and South American countries, as well as local families, so they gain the skills needed to raise their children in Palm Beach County. In addition to regular classes, the center also offers ASQ-3 Screening to determine if children are at risk for developmental delays.
“This has taught me a lot of patience,” Gonzalez said, who also has a 2-year-old son. “I’ve learned so much about being a better parent mostly by calming down when I talk to my children.”
During the morning class Gonzalez is attending, close to 20 other mothers and their children are creating their own “first books” full of first words, first sentences and first pictures of all their favorite things. They are also doing arts activities, reading books, and listening to instructor Veronica Callejas explain the importance of parental engagement with children.
“As parents, you have to be your child’s first teacher,” said Callejas, a child development specialist at the center. “We have to get our kids ready for school.”
Parents attending this class, and others like it, to learn practical techniques to reduce stress and address everyday parenting concerns. According to BRIDGES, here are examples of positive parenting:
- Create a stable, supportive, peaceful home.
- Build positive relationships with your children.
- Deal clearly, calmly and consistently with any problem behavior.
- Encourage behavior that you like.
- Know what is reasonable to expect from your children and yourself.
- Take care of yourself as a parent.
A stay-at-home mom, Gonzalez brings her daughter to the classes regularly. Her daughter enjoys coming because she likes the activities and spending quality time with Gonzalez doing fun projects like the “first book.”
“I tell her we’re going to ‘school’ and she just lights up. She loves it here,” Gonzalez says.
Fabienne Brizeus also enjoys bringing her children to the classes. On the same morning class, she, too, is sitting with her 3-year-old daughter Johanna and also working on their “first book.” Her son, Joshua, 2, is in another room playing with other children – a big step for him because, until recently, he had been clinging to Brizeus every time she leaves him to go to work as a manager at a McDonald’s.
“The parenting skills I learned have helped me develop a closer relationship with my son and daughter,” she says. “They’ve learned that when I go to work, they are going to be OK and I am going to be Ok. I just walk out the door and leave and my son no longer screams and throws tantrums.”